Definitely! They wilt and you want to cry. Go for gaura, cistus. I will send you some Stipa gigantea seeds. But to tell you the truth, I don't mind if they will germinate. I will check for life and send you some. I bought 2 plants, but only one has seed pods. I have collected some from Hyde Hall! Son was very nervous. I told him that they would just fell onto the ground. Any way, they are gorgeous, but I can't guarantee they will germinate. My experiment with my own batch has not shown any life. Any way, sorry to drag you into long conversation. Need to get some beauty sleep now, Not that it will help! Hehe! But I am always happy ..