@BigC, thanks, yes it's upsetting to see friends that way. He's lost his hearing, has 2 hearing aids. He's changing the carers,he has to do it through social services, thought he had to give a weeks notice, but it was 2 weeks. So he's got to put up with them for another week. They don't come when they supposed to. In the morning they should arrive between 9 - 9.30 in the morning to get him out of bed. It's even worse now.
@Verdun yes thanks.i think he will get it. But he should have gone through social services first.Before i did my knee, i went round once a fortnight for a few hours. He's got a computer and makes greetings cards, i cut things out for him,he can't do it himself.
@alp lovely flowers, the bees supposed to like the achillias,
but i grew them and nothing .Yes thanks.Keith's already got another carer that comes in the day to do his meals,cleaning, washing and ironing. That's the one who picked me up. I got to know him through her. She did live with him as his partner, but things didn't work out, but still carried on as his carer. I thought at the time it was a bit strange to do that. But that's what he wanted.
It's sad that he still has feelings for her.
