Buy her a gift? Know way going to do that for her.
She came home from a shopping trip for our teen age daughter and kept talking about this great sweat shirt she saw. since I worked the night shift I got up Monday morning and went and bought that sweat shirt for her.
No she never even tried it on or ever wore it. Just left it laying where I would see it every time I got home from work. After it laid there for a full year I took it to Salvation Army with other stuff.
We went on a color tour on our motor cycles with a few other couples. Third morning the wives were compalining we guys didn't do any thing special for them. What a bunch of chumps we were we should have told them as I had told my wife when we got married she could quit her job.
But when we returned home the next day I got up early in the morning, went and bought her a dozen yellow roses.
When I got home the next morning after doing a 12 hour shift I caught so much crap over those dam roses. I finally shut her up, told her I would go see a divorce lawyer as soon as I got some sleep and she could go to work happy she had really for the last time gotten any thing from me ever. I did go and talk to a divorce lawyer later that day.
She called me at work that night and said she was sorry and I could inform the lawyer i no longer needed him.
Today If I want some thing I go buy it. If she wants some thing she can buy it her self. No more neat sweat shirts or cut flowers will ever cross the thresh hold I spent good money on.
Al