I'm so sorry you have this problem, and I feel for you Rxpain. Pythium Blight, and it's a bad bad thing! Once you have it, anytime the the right conditions arise, it blossoms again. There are a lot of products that say they can stop it, but its a downright lie. I have not seen any kind of product that will get rid of this disease for good. I've seen a lot of homeowners spend a lot of money on fungicides, new seed, new soil, sod, and fertilizers. Can you imagine spending $5000.00 on a new lawn full of sod only to get what you are getting now, the following year?
The stories I could tell you about Pythium and TARR disease costing so much damage. One homeowner had her topsoil removed and replaced with fresh topsoil and replanted with new sod and infected the next year. The problem is the spores can come in your yard off of mower wheels, bottom of shoes, or a pet but mostly just live in the soil. Weather conditions plays a big role in helping it bloom and spread spores everywhere. The spores are looking for a weak host that has no vigor. Overwatered bermuda, that's new, or over fertilized old grass make a perfect host.
The only real way to not have it, is by reversing the conditions that the spores like. The yards that have been fertilized for the last 15 or 20 years "every single year" , "3 times a year," are the ones that get it and can't get rid of it. I had a couple of yards that used organic composted treatments and had no problems. To be honest I have made a lot more income due to the fungus and learning about it was well worth the time.