Have a potted pygmy date palm I purchased this spring repotted not to disturb the root ball. I realize they are slow growers but I have noticed in the past few weeks the frons are drooping and even looks like they are trying to close up. Help...help... the middle is green but I am still concerned something is wrong. I checked the soil and it seems fine so I am sure it is not root rot. A friend told me to place gravel in the bottom for the plant to get air but I am concerned this is only suffocating the plant and not allowing the air to reach the soil to dry out properly. Thoughts anyone. Should I repot and take out the gravel? Its a nice potted tree about 3ft tall. I live in the midwest and would really like to keep it for the winter