Thanks for the input. The web is ALL OVER the place on this stuff. The MOST agreed on is that the green berries are poisonous...although there seems to be some disagreement there as well. I would think it would be pretty easy to classify a plant as poisonous or not, even scientific journals seem to disagree on this one. I found one site that claims the ripe berries are tasty to eat out of hand or in Jams, still others that claim is can be fatal even when ripe!
Florida poison control officially lists it as toxic. So I think it has to go. Lots of poisonous plants around to be sure, but berries are just to tempting to little kids. I don't worry about them plucking a caladium leaf for a snack, but a bush full of pretty blue berries (that kind of look like mini blueberries to a kid!) is tempting. Especially when it is right at the edge of our driveway where they like to play. Kind of like leaving a bottle of open bleach in the middle of the floor while they play!